The question today is about my favorite animals. While my favorite animal is, technially, turtles, I’ve got to go with dogs right now. Cats too, but my dogs have been my focus lately. Especially my rescue boy, Ethan. He’s been having some difficulty lately. He is such a gentle soul. Laid back and not as high energy as Millie, our other rescue dog. It didn’t seem to be a problem at first, but we’ve discovered that Ethan has gotten a bit destructive. Our couch cushions have been his favorite target.

As we have tried to figure out why he does this, we made a habit of taking all the cushions off the couch when we leave the house. Recently, I figured out a way to repair the cushions. It involves a wooden dowel and a staple gun since he seems to have destroyed the zipper that closes them. That solution was only temporary apparently as he continued to tear them open, and chew the wood inside.

We finally figured out why he does this. He, like his human mama, has anxiety issues. And Millie, being as high energy as she is, makes him anxious. He will play with her when they’re outside, but inside, he would much rather snuggle with us and nap peacefully. When Millie doesn’t want to do that, she gets in his face and barks. If we’re home when she does that, he runs to us and climbs in our laps to get away from her. The problem is, she seems to do this the most between the time I go back to work after coming home for lunch and then coming home at 5:00. There are no laps to climb in then. So he took his anxiety out on our furniture.

But thankfully, he was due for his annual vaccines a few weeks ago and I mentioned our concerns to the vet. It didn’t take long into his examination of Ethan to confirm that my sweet boy was full of anxiety. So puppy prozac was prescribed.

Reminds me of the intense anxiety I had last week and my impromptu visit to my psychiatrist to get a new anxiety medication. This week, Ethan and I both felt the effects of our anxiety meds. Not only did my doctor give me an “as needed” medicine but she also increased the dose of what I normally take. This week, I had very little anxiety. None of it became bad enough for me to take the “as needed” medicine.

Likewise, Ethan’s medicine began to take effect. It’s one of those medicines that needs a couple of weeks to start working. I finally repaired all of the couch cushions and put them back on the couch. I used a super strong fabric glue this time instead of wood and staples.

The good news is, Ethan seems to be less anxious, as am I, and our living room furniture is fully intact once again.

10 responses

  1. Aww. As soon as I started reading about the couch cushions, I immediately thought, “anxiety” or “separation anxiety.”

    For a few years, when my baby girl was still alive, Jernee had major separation anxiety. She would harm herself, though, by chewing on her paws. I started wrapping her paws up, and giving her items with my scent on them for her to relax with in her bed. I never wanted her on the meds because she was already past the beginning of senior dog age, and over time, my methods helped her.

    I’m so glad you all were able to find a fitting solution for Ethan. He’s such a handsome boy, and he looks like a sweet one, too.

    1. I’m glad your methods worked for Jernee! Ethan really is just so so sweet. We think he may have been dumped by a previous family. From day 1 he has snuggled with us so intensely like he’s begging us not to dump him too. So gentle and so loving every single day. Doesn’t even bark, except at Nugget who hisses at him.

      1. 💜💛💙

  2. I rescued my Great Dane from a horrible situation. She had separation anxiety bad (the vet thought that it was because she was locked in a dark garage for months with no human or outside at all). For the first 7 months she was terrified of everything, grass, wind, even turning the lights on 😫 she destroyed my house. Even chewed the inside door handle right off the front door?!
    I completely get it.
    Fast forward 7 years and I now have a very old lady (she’ll be 11 soon!) who’s healthy, happy and no longer has any sort of anxieties 🥰🥰

    1. Oh my! What a horrible situation! I’m so happy she’s free of her anxiety! There’s nothing more healing than a calm, happy household where all needs are met and there’s lots of love. That sounds like exactly what she needed and got with you!

      1. Definitely! For the first while I kept thinking oh my what did I get myself into lol now she’s the biggest suck baby on the planet. Shes come so far and I wouldn’t trade her for the world ☺️

      2. I love that! May you have many more happy years together!

  3. Poor puppy…maybe millie needs a little puppy gummie…you know…to take her down a notch or two…I’m kidding if course, but ya never know 😉

    1. Oh she has them! Lol! She has a sedative that I have to give her when I take her to the vet. She gets so excited when we go that she gets really loud and wiggly when we’re there!

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