• Growth from Mental Illness

    To ask me what experiences have helped me grow the most, today, is a very timely question. Yesterday was Self-Injury Awareness Day. March is Self-Harm Awareness Month. Self-injury was very much a part of my story when I was in college. My recovery from it is what has contributed most to the person I am…

  • Fate/Destiny/God’s Plan…

    Without a doubt, I 100% believe in fate/destiny. However, I see it as God’s plan for me. Because I know that God has a plan for all of us. That’s what my faith has taught me. Things happen for a reason. My husband has a hard time with this. So many negative things have happened…

  • Just a Phase

    I’m late to respond today, but can’t break my streak! This is a hard “question” to answer. I can easily look back on the different phases of my life and immediately answer that I am glad to be through with it. The things that made it bad are a lot more vivid in my memory…

  • I Am Who I Am

    If you could be someone else for a day, who would you be, and why? My answer to this question depends on the parameters involved with being someone else. While I am spending the day as someone else, am I consciously aware that I am still myself but appearing to be in someone else’s life?…

  • Growth

    Describe the most ambitious DIY project you’ve ever taken on. I really think we’ve had this exact same question before. Have I been answering these long enough to see we’re circling back to old prompts? Oh well. I’m pretty sure last time I wrote that I am the most ambitious DIY project I’ve ever taken…

  • YOU Calm Down!

    If you could permanently ban a word from general usage, which one would it be? Why? There are many words that should be banned. The racial slurs, or really, any word that disparages a person for something out of their control. And not just out of their control, but something that is simply a part…

  • The Unchallenged

    What is the biggest challenge you will face in the next six months? The great thing about this new life of mine…a life post-grad school, post-stressful career is that I don’t know what my biggest challenge will be in the next six months. While I was in grad school, the challenge was my internship, or…

  • The Listening Ability of Teenagers

    What advice would you give to your teenage self? I have spent a great deal of time lately reflecting on this very topic. I yearn to go back and have a conversation with my teenage self. As I have been reading and sharing my journals from that time period, I see the girl I was…

  • Let Them Be Bored!

    Are adults ever really bored? Because really, if something bores you, as adults, we have the choice to not participate in it. Even if it’s a person, we can make the choice to not engage with that person. There are so many things at our disposal that can alleviate boredom. Sitting in a dull staff…

  • Friends

    I don’t generally like being around people, because I can be quite the introvert. But in thinking about people whose company I do truly enjoy, they have these things in common: I’m sure there are other things I could add to the list that I can see in the people I like to be around.…